They smile while plotting. Crocodiles are easy. They try to kill and eat you. People are harder. Sometimes, they pretend to be your friend first.
That smiling face across the table might hide sharp teeth. A hard truth we all face - not everyone who claims to be your friend actually has your back.
Think about that friend who's always around when things are good. They laugh at your jokes. They enjoy your parties. But where are they when trouble hits? Suddenly busy or nowhere to be found.
Real friends stick with you through good and bad times. Fake ones only show up when they need something or when times are good.
Want to spot these pretenders early? Look for these warning signs:
- They talk about others behind their backs (they're doing the same to you)
- They only call when they need something
- They compete instead of celebrate your wins
- They vanish during your tough times
- Your gut feels uneasy around them - trust it!
What makes fake friends so harmful is the surprise attack. You don't expect the knife because you thought they were on your side. This hurts far more than facing a clear enemy.
The solution isn't becoming cold or untrusting. It's being careful about who gets your trust in the first place. Make people earn it through actions, not just words.
Next time someone new enters your life, watch what they do more than what they say. Do they keep their promises? Do they stand by you when it's not convenient? These are the real tests of friendship.
Remember - crocodiles show their teeth. Fake friends hide theirs behind smiles. Know the difference, and you'll build connections that actually matter.
Which "friend" in your life needs a closer look right now?
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