Being far from someone you love is hard.
You wake up, reach for your phone, and wish they were right there.
But it can still work if both of you really try.
Here are some things that help.
- Plan your time well: Don’t just call anytime. Pick a time that works for both of you so no one feels ignored or tired.
- Make sure you both want the same thing: If one person wants something serious and the other just wants to see how it goes, it won’t last. Talk about what you both want.
- Don’t depend on your phone too much: Texts and video calls are fine, but try other things too. Send a small gift, a letter, or a short voice note. It shows effort.
- Talk about real things: Don’t make every chat the same “good morning” and “have you eaten” talk. Share your day, your plans, your fears. That’s how you stay close.
- Share small things: Tell them about your day, what you cooked, or something funny you saw. Small talks make the distance feel smaller.
- When you meet, don’t try too hard: Just be together. Eat, laugh, walk around, or do nothing. You don’t have to make it perfect. Just make it real.
- Don’t stop living your own life: Keep growing, learning, and doing things you love. When both people are happy alone, they stay happier together.
Distance doesn’t break love.
What breaks it is when people stop trying.
If both of you keep choosing each other every day, it will last. ❤️
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